Well, I came to realize today that abusive people will always be abusive, and that I REALLY don't care if they are offended by my boundaries or my not being willing to put up with behavior that makes me uncomfortable. Abusers are going to be abusive no matter what, but the more you let them get away with, the more they TRY to get away with.. so why should I or anyone else, worry about what they think??
I would rather be with someone who has the same values as me, instead of being around people who consider me "uptight", for not being risky enough for their tastes. I LIKE having high standards, goals, and ambitions. I enjoy my life, and don't need alcohol and drugs to be happy and cheerful all the time. Actually, it amazes me how many people who USE drugs and alcohol actually WISH that they could feel as upbeat and be as energetic as I am. So there. Nanny nanny boo boo- you can't get me, because if I had to choose between being alone and appreciated, and being with someone who was a jerk- I would choose the single life, instead, TYVM. I like it better that way- I can wake up and face myself in the mirror that way. I know a lot of people just can't do this. I am glad that I can, and especially that I do. =)
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